Monday's Mailbag: Stepfathers

Dear Wicked:

What about stepdads? Can you offer any pearls of wisdom for the Dads out there facing similar struggles?

Signed,
New (Second)Dad

Dear Dad II,

From what I've seen and experienced Stepparent struggles know no gender. Stepmoms and Stepdads face many of the same challenges, as you noted, so I hope you've found some solace here since online resources are (sadly) limited.

(Though my Stepdad made it look so easy. He was the coolest most down-to-earth guy who NEVER got his feathers ruffled. I miss him.)

But if you're looking from some places geared just for Stepdad's try here and here. Also give these Dads a shout and see if they can scout out a blogging Stepdad to add to their family.

Good luck!
W.S.

Monday's Mailbag: Expert Resources

Dear Wicked,

Nice blog... but,what makes you such an expert on stepparenting?

Respectfully,
Stepmom Searching for Guidance

Dear Searching,

Nothing.

I am only an expert in steparenting as it relates to MY life because... well, I'm living it. This blog is about my Life experiences as a Second Wife, Stepmom and Mom. All of it.

The good. The bad. And the ugly.

I write more for myself than anything else. It's a therapeutic outlet to help me navigate the sometimes troublesome waters of my Not-So Fairytale Life. But in so doing I've also gotten some pretty amazing comments and feedback from some pretty amazing Stepmoms who have helped me to learn that I am not alone. And for that I am grateful. I've also received some notes of thanks from other Stepmoms who, like me, felt they were alone. And for that I am also grateful. And humbled to think that my ramblings might actually be of some use to someone else. (Who knew!)

I'm no expert by any means. If you're looking for experts try Dawn or Jann and Sharyl. These chicks have already won their battles and learned the lessons that I am still learning and have some pretty amazing resources for Stepparents.

I have a ways to go but I will get there. One day. In the meantime, you're welcome to come along for the ride if you'd like. If not, I can try and help point you in the right direction.

Sincerely,
W.S.