tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post7643432005050971131..comments2023-12-21T04:18:32.670-05:00Comments on The Wicked Stepmom: Milestones Are ExpensiveWicked Stepmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07512939493170663368noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-45861243570140928472010-05-08T00:06:43.760-04:002010-05-08T00:06:43.760-04:00Good job, anonymous!! I'm sure these comments...Good job, anonymous!! I'm sure these comments will be deleted -- I found this post on a random google search too. <br />First, for the person who thinks a stepparent has the legal right to sign papers -- think again. This can only be done if the bio parent gives the stepparent power of attorney, usually if the bio parent is out of state or country, or is otherwise incapacitated. If SM is Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-24219458655784998952009-09-21T19:50:06.105-04:002009-09-21T19:50:06.105-04:00I just think it's strange that people can'...I just think it's strange that people can't love a child without having to express ownership over the child.....as if the kid is an object and not a human being in his/her own right. I have read many of the posts on these topics, and have learned so much about biological moms! For instance, I never knew that ALL biological moms were uneducated and bipolar. I never realized that the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-75401014683411521682009-09-20T15:37:17.714-04:002009-09-20T15:37:17.714-04:00The reality is this: Fathers really don't car...The reality is this: Fathers really don't care about daughter's personal appearance to the extent of peircings, hairstyles, etc, unless of course something is wildly inappropriate. Fathers usually just defer to the stepmother for fear of starting an argument and the biological mom gets the shaft. I am not saying all stepmoms are bad. Some are really great! But there seems to be the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-40901360449435236062009-09-20T15:28:19.208-04:002009-09-20T15:28:19.208-04:00Yep, you're a great person! Yes, I'm bein...Yep, you're a great person! Yes, I'm being sarcastic. My daughter's stepmom took my daughter in for her first haircut without even asking me--keep in mind that I had asked my daughter's father if all 3 of her parents (stepmom included) wanted to go get it done together. Stepmom's response was "I don't want you there, because he and I are a couple." Obviously, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-44664673631082998442009-06-22T16:34:26.251-04:002009-06-22T16:34:26.251-04:00haha - I'm a childless step-mom to 3 kids, and...haha - I'm a childless step-mom to 3 kids, and for my step-daughter's 12th (golden) birthday last year, I granted her request for a second piercing in each ear; something her father was a-ok with. She was sooo excited and I made sure to get the "good" earrings, so that they wouldn't irritate her sensitive ears and all that jazz.<br /><br />Her Bio-Mom FLIPPED OUT, screamed stepped-on-momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03407690221195586275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-63067501365281638302009-02-25T00:51:00.000-05:002009-02-25T00:51:00.000-05:00Perhaps Anonymous should first have read a few pas...Perhaps Anonymous should first have read a few past posts, especially "Another Milestone for the Tween" before talking about something she (I assume "she") knows nothing about.<BR/><BR/>And Kudos to Wicked for not deleting the troll comments; I would not have been so even handed.Vickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02462689591210400556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-10212958172391299962009-02-24T21:33:00.000-05:002009-02-24T21:33:00.000-05:00phew!phew!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-57976680845812661442009-02-23T11:52:00.000-05:002009-02-23T11:52:00.000-05:00It always amazes me when people respond anonymousl...It always amazes me when people respond anonymously. <BR/><BR/>Personally being a bio-mom and a step-mom I understand where you are coming from. <BR/><BR/>For the anonymous I have a question...why are you ripping her to shreads when it was the mother who first got the child's ears pierced without consulting the bio father. That makes this no different than what bio mother did. Respect does Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06119654658431888351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-37074066499755662712009-02-23T09:04:00.000-05:002009-02-23T09:04:00.000-05:00If the bio-mother wanted to push the issue; she co...If the bio-mother wanted to push the issue; she could subpoena the papers that you falsly signed. She could also file legal charges for you claiming to be the mother. <BR/><BR/>It doesn't matter who gives you permission to sign. You should have had Dad sign them and you turn them in. <BR/><BR/>If Dad gave you permission, to do something else ILLEGAL (pretending to be her real mother) to your Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-91826466733647245872009-02-22T20:02:00.000-05:002009-02-22T20:02:00.000-05:00"Milestone" and "She can have her Shit Fit" words ..."Milestone" and "She can have her Shit Fit" words you chose. You mentioned that she asked to be involved in this decision. A request that you denied, with a "bite me" attitude. If she does negatively respond to this latest gesture on your behalf- how is it related to her ego? Do you believe any milestones should be reserved for certain people in family units? Especially if the expectations haveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-62236367333236414292009-02-22T17:15:00.000-05:002009-02-22T17:15:00.000-05:00Anon -You couldn't be more wrong in your ASSumptio...Anon -<BR/><BR/>You couldn't be more wrong in your ASSumptions or analysis - except with your observation of me taking the higher road. <BR/><BR/>Not ALL Stepmoms are motivated by the petty need to "jump to it" and deny BioMoms anything. Just as I realize that not ALL BioMoms are as ego-maniacal as to think our every action is about YOU.<BR/><BR/>I am sorry if this might be the case with your Wicked Stepmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07512939493170663368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-21106953605216070712009-02-22T16:08:00.000-05:002009-02-22T16:08:00.000-05:00"So she can have her shit fit. And she can bite me..."So she can have her shit fit. And she can bite me."<BR/><BR/>Taking the high ground again I see... very nice, perfect on the road to your desire for family harmony. How does it feel to see cindy uncomfortable and in the middle? Oh yeah, it's bio mom's fault that she may want to be in on this milestone for her daughter- (she knew all along you'd jump to it which is probably why she did it to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-51067675611062670912009-02-20T17:14:00.000-05:002009-02-20T17:14:00.000-05:00I had that same sort of naughty feeling when I sig...I had that same sort of naughty feeling when I signed as parent/guardian for my SS's trip to a local play place. Hey, once again - the sole legal parent approves...survivoremhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08025997708539329962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-65201654666687970002009-02-20T16:53:00.000-05:002009-02-20T16:53:00.000-05:00so this is totally the vindictive part of me...but...so this is totally the vindictive part of me...but after Cruella has managed to screw something up so bad I so love to be the one to complete it the 'right' way. Best of luck the this round of earrings ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com