tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post7394787813418051186..comments2023-12-21T04:18:32.670-05:00Comments on The Wicked Stepmom: The Biology of DivorceWicked Stepmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07512939493170663368noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-44286983096184544632010-02-03T18:35:12.614-05:002010-02-03T18:35:12.614-05:00well Anonymous
you do talk utter crap
are you so...well Anonymous <br />you do talk utter crap<br />are you some sort of expert on parenting, i do love people who have all the answersamazednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-66981174040791327692010-02-03T11:55:01.911-05:002010-02-03T11:55:01.911-05:00I think each and every one of these comments are v...I think each and every one of these comments are very one-sided. Yes, it's natural for children to become rebellious during their teen years; what is not natural is these teenagers who are forced to live with step parents. Let's face it - if you have children, you owe it to them to provide a nice, normal and intact home. If you don't provide this, then it's up to the parents to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-2724460521615576752010-01-21T20:36:07.462-05:002010-01-21T20:36:07.462-05:00And with this, I'm going to walk down the hall...And with this, I'm going to walk down the hall and thank my 13 year old stepdaughter for not being this way yet again.<br /><br />I am so sorry.Marty, a.k.a. canapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15061361665908074413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-71128782958467979442010-01-21T15:04:22.452-05:002010-01-21T15:04:22.452-05:00Arrgh... teenagers suck. I'm glad the child is...Arrgh... teenagers suck. I'm glad the child is still six but on the other hand know that unless the situation with her parents turns around that life is about to get ugly.<br /><br />I suppose one bonus with the law guardian is that at least they've known you forever but we wait for the resolution of this storystefhttp://atouchofthecrazy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-57459329630534058352010-01-21T15:04:13.425-05:002010-01-21T15:04:13.425-05:00Arrgh... teenagers suck. I'm glad the child is...Arrgh... teenagers suck. I'm glad the child is still six but on the other hand know that unless the situation with her parents turns around that life is about to get ugly.<br /><br />I suppose one bonus with the law guardian is that at least they've known you forever but we wait for the resolution of this storystefhttp://atouchofthecrazy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-21581724230680101352010-01-21T13:38:39.623-05:002010-01-21T13:38:39.623-05:00Goodness, I am sorry. It sounds to me like she is ...Goodness, I am sorry. It sounds to me like she is a spoiled brat. Well, I hope she gets what she wants and that is to stay with that nutcase she calls mother. <br /><br />She should be careful what she wishes for...<br /><br />Don't be too hard on yourself. Raising kids is not for the weak of heart...Taliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06274295352818030288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-37482425871109532842010-01-21T13:30:00.921-05:002010-01-21T13:30:00.921-05:00Hang in there! We had a similar situation where w...Hang in there! We had a similar situation where we asked SS to bring in some wood for the stove, he had just come back from a week at BM's and didn't "feel like it" so he called his mom and said he'd kill himself if she didn't get him out of our house. Of course, BM didn't bother to tell DH that SS was "suicidal" (which he wasn't), but she did manage dragonmctthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04353568394577351061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-82718981826580758172010-01-21T12:10:39.685-05:002010-01-21T12:10:39.685-05:00Let her use that "I'm afraid of my stepmo...Let her use that "I'm afraid of my stepmom" bullshit and stay at her "real" mom's house. She'll be reminded very quickly to "be careful what you ask for" after staying with that looney tune for even a minute. Sometimes they just have to lie in the bed they make to realize just how good they really have it.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14017310253445798018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-23593271174872009272010-01-21T10:10:03.748-05:002010-01-21T10:10:03.748-05:00When did parenting become abuse? That is the ques...When did parenting become abuse? That is the question I've been asking myself lately? How can our kids have so much power over us that we can't tell them no anymore without some authority figure stepping in to save the child from not getting their way?<br /><br />This world is getting crazy. <br /><br />And welcome to the teen years! I've got myself a whole mess of it too.Stepped in H-E Double Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14242475848622313409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-22348430903100541152010-01-21T09:41:23.601-05:002010-01-21T09:41:23.601-05:00This kids get away with way to much. My Mom would...This kids get away with way to much. My Mom would have been like, " You say you are afraid, I'll give you something to be afraid about!" and then beat my ass until I stopped being stupid. I hope the LG saw through her nonsense!The Step In Mom. . .https://www.blogger.com/profile/05997399976398745037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-55720895106775291742010-01-21T08:39:53.247-05:002010-01-21T08:39:53.247-05:00Oh, it starts. Ours turns 13 in 4 days...and he ha...Oh, it starts. Ours turns 13 in 4 days...and he has suddenly cleverly figured out that he can get away with much MUCH more if he plays whole "I don't want to go to mom's" game, or vice versa. Teenagers are a nightmare; teenagers in a hostile divorce/custody situation are far more difficult. I hope this doesn't disrupt your life too much, but I'm sure Maleficent is Eyes Wide Openhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03049177383854839898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-74043340887335686172010-01-21T05:46:01.243-05:002010-01-21T05:46:01.243-05:00My SD called DSS because I took away the TV in her...My SD called DSS because I took away the TV in her bedroom as punishment for not doing her homework. My heart goes out to you. Hang in there. When she gets older, she will be horrified about her actions. Mine is now 35 and wonders how in the world I could love her through all that when she wasn't even my biological daughter and I told her that is how you know that I truly loved her.loonyhikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05378360383088143368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-63525306414329746442010-01-21T05:01:29.630-05:002010-01-21T05:01:29.630-05:00No she did not! I am so sorry this is the time sh...No she did not! I am so sorry this is the time she turns into a teenager, it's hard enough for your as it is right now. You have to know its nothing you've done, but likely just that she is going through a second divorce, and all the chaos that implies in her mind.<br />Hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-90926637003215813962010-01-20T22:24:30.721-05:002010-01-20T22:24:30.721-05:00You have my sympathies. I'm a bio Mom and have...You have my sympathies. I'm a bio Mom and have sons but I got the same deal where my kids once actually called the cops because I was "being mean".<br /><br />I learned an invaluable phrase from all the chaos though. You just have to bide your time and wait until she wants something. Then tell her "Sure! you can have/do whatever that is JUST AS SOON AS you do your chores/take aAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6808149.post-81301062663447146232010-01-20T22:16:58.684-05:002010-01-20T22:16:58.684-05:00I'm guessing the shitstorm nightmare?
What a ...I'm guessing the shitstorm nightmare?<br /><br />What a mess. What a brat. How awful for you!Chickiehttp://www.skitteringthoughts.comnoreply@blogger.com